Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Great Expectations and other fantasies
Thank you so much for your encouraging comments on my last post. It's so cool to send something out on the web and have other people respond; it makes my day!! Thank you!
My mind has been racing making plans for the time S and C come stay with us.
I have such GREAT expectations for their time in our home. Here is a list of what I want to do:
-Set up routines: morning, after school, bedtime
-Cook together
-Let them choose a couple recipes each month to make.
-Give them household responsibilities appropriate for their ages (5 and 7).
-Read aloud a chapter per day from a chapter book most days of the week.
-Read them a bedtime story each night.
-Watch very little tv.
-Pray with them everyday.
-Learn about God every day.
-Feed them healthy foods for the majority of their meals with us (I'm expecting there to be a pizza night or two...or three).
-Engage them in some sort of physical activity most days of the week--walks around town, trips to the park, tossing a ball around...got any ideas for me??
-Encourage their creativity and their desire to learn (this is a bit vague...I need some concrete strategies).
-Listen to them.
-Chill out and enjoy them.
I feel somewhat hesitant to share all this with anyone because I hear parents so often say things like, "You'll see when you have kids of your own, " and giving the impression that its foolish to have expectations of doing much more than shoving food in mouths and playing chauffeur. I don't want to resign myself to the idea that there will be no time to have fun (like the kids in the picture above are having)!
Do I need a reality check? Do you have some advice or wisdom regarding day-to-day life with kids? I need it!!
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